The hidden solution

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We are all inspired by others and our energy vibrates in different ways... Some days we are extremely happy, other days we are feeling depressed. There are thousands of reasons why this happens, sometimes the people that surround us, the bad events happening that lead to a bad reaction, the negativity or positivity in our mind. And I am a believer that we can change our days and life by changing our thoughts. 

The problem, very often, is that we focus on the negative aspects. For example, we woke up, take a shower, brush our teeth, get ready... Once we get outside we leave our comfort zone, and if something happens (that is different from what we thought) we tend to react negatively. The train is late we get mad, we split our coffee we get mad, the meeting that we were waiting for is canceled, the promotion that was supposed to happen was postponed. We should learn to react to the events in a better way. Because: how many times something less good happened and something greater came after? A lot of times... 

I remember I was living in a country that I loved, everything was what I wanted, except the part that I couldn't find someone to love and be loved. I was always thinking about that, but I couldn't find the person that would give me love unconditionally. Until one day I decided to move back to my country. After a couple of weeks of looking for a job I had this interview in an amazing Hotel that I loved and it was my second interview. In the meantime, one of my friends told me to work in a nightclub in Portugal for the Summer - as a promoter. I was thinking that this would be the last option. Going to the south of my country for something that was not a real job, working in a nightclub, being up late, wasting a full day to sleep. So I proceed with my interview for the Hotel but a few days after I did not get any answer from the General Manager and I had to give an answer to my friend. But that worked out well not because I went to work with my friend but because in a group of workers I met my actual boyfriend. We are together now for almost 5 years, we share the same goals, passion, and we are truly in love with each other and trying to grow things together. 

So sometimes the option that looks the worst is the best option. Whenever I think I need this in my life, I always like to think that I need this result, not this specific thing. Because sometimes we don't need this specific job... We need the feeling that we think this job is going to give us, or the money we expect the job is offering. 

I hope you have a great day and if something isn't happening in the way you expected don't get negative about it and expect something greater to come! 

Make a plan

I think it's very important to have a plan in our life. I would not say that we need to plan every single move, but at least have a goal and a plan for it. 

Know exactly what you want to do in life

I'm sure you know that you want to be successful; even if you don't know exactly what you want to do till you get there. You may want to be a fashion designer with your own fashion show and collection, or an amazing artist with your own gallery, maybe a great writer publishing great books, or even an excellent Chef with your own restaurant. But do you already know what you want to be? 

Make a plan

Don't forget to write everything down and start thinking as you already have that business/job. It's a store that you want? Write the name of the place, how many employees you want to collaborate with you, where you want to have the store, how much money you will need, what's gonna be your first collection, how you gonna make the clothes, how it's gonna be the decoration, what events you should do to promote. You can write everything you want. 

Now the real stuff

What do you need to start saving money for your project? You also need to think how much time you will need it, what you can do, which jobs you can find. Maybe it's better 2 part time jobs than one full time, you can do some extra jobs as babysitting, cleaning someone cars, taking your neighbor's dogs out, teaching math/english/french or whatever to someone . Think an amount of money that you can do during this jobs.

After all I think you can start doing some progress! I mean, everyone can. It's just a question of focus in what you really want. Trust me, it's not easy, but everyone can if they really want! Just make a plan.